Are you stuck and can’t seem to stop creating the same problems in your life? Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? Have you tried everything but nothing works and your life is getting worse?

It doesn’t have to be that way anymore.

There is another way – out of the pain and stress, the hopelessness, and helplessness.

Transformational and Educational Coach, Laura Worley works with the subconscious mind and body to teach people how to gently, carefully, and according to their own pace release the emotional pain, the triggers of the past, and the stress all the way down to its roots. Empowering people to transform their lives, reclaim their hope, and heal.

You Are Not Your Problems. You Can Change.

Meridian tapping draws on emerging leading neuroscience relating to memory and how we change memories each time we think of them. It harnesses the brilliance of the subconscious mind and the body to work for your highest benefits. Imagine your mind as a recorder; recording everything from the day you were born, with the primary goal of keeping you safe. If our unconsious mind is a recorder of everything that has happened including the feeling, what we saw, heard, tasted, and smelled at the time in every memory; we must change each one of these aspects in order for us to change negative beliefs and how we hold the experience.

Tapping allows us to go into the unconsious mind and literally rewire the brain to release the pain of the past. When we change painful memories we cannot hold the past in the same way. We no longer get upset with our negative experiences. We change our negative experiences to positive. What happens if we change every negative memory into a positve? You guessed it…Our mind starts to create a happy life.  

Remember our unconsious mind can only create from what it holds. If you want to have a happy life you must release the pain of what happened. That is why with tapping we can address all five senses and change feelings, perspectives, beliefs because we are literally releasing the negative charge from the unconsious mind and body.  

We’re talking about the subconscious mind, the part of our mind that processes according to well-respected scientist and Biology of Belief author Dr. Bruce Lipton, the equivalent of 60 million bits of data per second, as opposed to the conscious mind, which processes the equivalent of 40 bits of data per second. Who wins in a stand-off? What you want, or what will keep you “safe”?

The Mechanism of Trauma and Its Long-term Footprint: A Survival Method

When we have trauma, it is stored in long-term memory in the subconscious mind, which keeps recreating the event in your mind to ironically keep you safe. The subconscious mind is linear which means it has no since of time. That is why something that was experienced as a child can seem real now. Example, Jane, experienced a trauma by mom or dad saying something that left her with the belief, “I am not good enough” . Maybe when David was 10,he was sexually abused and he understood from the 10 year old mind he made a belief that in order to keep safe and out of harm’s, “I need to be fat.” These beliefs are what the subconscious mind holds and will continue to create a life from unless he changes the belief and releases the pain from the mind and body.

Tapping harnesses the subconscious mind with all its glorious resources and uses its resources as guideposts to release the negative thoughts and emotions inside. We literally take each event and change it into a positive. Once the negative fear-based resource, is replaced or imprinted with a positive resource. It is now ok to feel safe, have healthy relationship, money, take off weight, and whatever else you want to accomplish!

EFT was developed by Gary Craig

“EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Techniques (sometimes called Tapping) and, in essence, it is an emotional version of acupuncture, except we don’t use needles. Instead, we stimulate certain meridian points on the body by tapping on them with our fingertips. This has shown repeatedly to reduce the conventional therapy process from months or years down to minutes, hours or a few sessions.”

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Inner Child Work allows you to connect with that part of you that so badly needs your love and attention. When you release the pain of the inner child there can be integration, connection, and congruency of self. When that happens life changes into infinite possibilities.

“Who you are today – your strengths, problems, level of self-esteem, habits – is in large part a product of your development. At each age, from birth to toddler to child to adolescent, you were met with certain typical challenges. If your caregivers raised you in a natural way that allowed you to healthily traverse each stage and master the skills necessary to progress, you most likely ended up a well-balanced, confident individual with a strong sense of yourself.

However, at each stage, there are countless traumas, big and small, that can occur and keep you from resolving the issues of that stage. Unresolved issues stay with us throughout our lives, expressing themselves in our relationships with ourselves and others. If you have a pattern of unhealthy relationships, low self-esteem, addictions or other problems, you may well be experiencing the results of unresolved issues from these childhood and adolescent stages and you might be able to benefit from overcoming trauma.

As Cathryn L. Taylor says in The Inner Child Workbook, “If you react strongly to an interaction with someone, it is usually a sign that an old issue has been triggered. If as a child you were told you never did anything right, then as an adult, when that message is inferred, it will bring up the pain of the past. If in your current relationship you find yourself forever haunted with the fear that your partner will leave you, you may be reacting to an old experience where one of your parents left the other or left you. In other words, if you’ve been hurt in a similar way before, the hurt from the past as well as the present will emerge. If you find that no matter what you do you have a recurring reaction to a specific issue, it is most likely related to your childhood.”

I do a lot of inner child work because it is my belief that is where the root of all of our problems start. When you change the belief of the child within your whole life can change. You can begin to create a new belief that better serves you as an adult.

“Numerous examples could be given, but it is most important to understand that you react strongly to people, places and things for a reason. When you find that reason, and heal the circumstances that created it, you are then free to respond to your present interactions, not react to them because of your past. You may not be able to change the facts of your past, but you can change the way you relate to those facts. You may have to rework each scene many times. The repetition will alter the experience, and each time your children within are rescued, they have more trust for you. The more trust they feel for you, the less they will influence your adult life.”